The first step together

I must admit I am a novice at the various rituals that happen for a hindu marriage and therefore I am a little bit more curious about everything that's happening for my marriage. The first step to confirm acceptance for a relationship between the two families starts off with the 'rokka' or 'rokna'. Quiet literally I have been stopped to think myself as being 'free' :)

In our case, we had this elaborate function a day before Aditi's birthday where relatives from both sides were invited to give their blessings. Aditi flew to Chandigarh a day before the function. I guess this was her last chance to run away, but by marking her attendance I guess she accepted the wishes of her destiny :)

Sometimes shopping can be a different experience, and this time I went out to shop a kurta for myself. I kept guessing what would Aditi be wearing for the occasion so that I could match her well, but in the absence of a solid clue, I went for something risk-free: a maroon kurta.

Aditi surprised me with her green saree, however she looked beautiful as always. For those who missed the action (Ankita ji you are being referred here), photographs of the event were shared in real time :)

Here's one photograph of the event to give you an idea.

Like the colours that we wore, we are very different personalities. What brings us together is an appreciation for this difference and the search for something common. More interesting stuff for you coming in the next blog. Stay tuned!