It has been more than a year now. Huh!! Really! 1 whole
year! And I am still married and that too happily. Yes people believe it or
not, I am HAPPILY MARRIED.
I never wanted to get married. All I ever wanted was a
friend. Who would know all my flaws and still bear with me. Who would fight
with me…yeah that’s my favorite pastime! Who would help me with all the
household work, whenever and if at all I do any of it. I hate guys who sit in
front of the TV with remote in one hand and legs stretched on table, while the
wife sweats out in kitchen.
Anuj is all that and more. We fight like cats and dogs. Psst..
don’t tell anyone but yeah literally we do with all the slaps and kicks and
punches involved. He helps me with all the work. Whenever cook does not come,
he would do it for me. When the maid ditches us, I find him sweeping the floor
when I wake up rubbing my eyes. He would come pick me up when I have late night
dinners with my colleagues. Ok ok..it sounds like he does it all…but I also do
it sometimes.
We know all the secrets about each other.. trust me all of them.
He keeps mentioning to his friends that what a miserable husband he is and I keep
mentioning what a bossy wife I am. People love those stories about us and we love telling more and more of them.
So, in short as few of my friends said and I quote, “Khaa jaegi ye bichare
ko”, I have proven you right guys!!
Not husband and wife, I like to call ourselves as Roommates.
The only difference is that I get all the space and he gets none.
People tell me it’s all because it’s still new. I don’t mind
because if one year is still considered new..I am happy!
Hmm all that I can say is its lovely and I’m loving it….
What I sense from reading your blog posts is that you give enough space to each other in your relationship as much as you are dependent on each other. That's so cool. In this process...one enjoys to live together as well as does not lose ones own individual identities.
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